Dementia Gateway: Difficult situations

Case study: Why oh why? Creative brainstorming solutions to toilet problems

This case study comes from a home care service that specialises in working with people with dementia. Although fictionalised, it is based on a collection of true stories.

Background

Bernard had Alzheimer's disease and lived at home with his wife, Agnes. He received daily home care support and attended a day centre twice a week. Recently, Agnes had been struggling to cope with being Bernard's carer. There was one problem above all others that was driving her to despair: at least once, and often two or three times every night, Bernard would rise from bed, stand in the corner of the bedroom and empty his bladder.

Agnes usually awoke when Bernard got up in the night. As a result she was exhausted: not only was she waking frequently, but she also found it hard to get to sleep when listening out for Bernard getting out of bed. Even if she was awake, Agnes rarely managed to be able to do anything to stop Bernard from urinating on the floor. Shouting for him to stop had no effect (Bernard was quite deaf anyway). Putting the bedside light on made no difference. With her arthritic joints, Agnes couldn't manage to get out of bed and reach him in time to stop him. Wearing an incontinence pad made no difference – Bernard simply removed it before urinating.

Even though Bernard showed no other indications of this, Agnes had become convinced that Bernard was acting out of spite.

…toileting difficulties are by no means straightforward problems to understand.

Stokes, G. (2000)

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Further reading

Stokes, G. (2000) Challenging behaviour in dementia, a person-centred approach, Milton Keynes: Speechmark Publishing.

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