What people like about Phil

Initially, Phil had a natural reserve and didn’t want to discuss his personal qualities, so Kay decided to leave this section of the one-page profile and come back to it at the end.

As Phil has been hesitant to say anything nice about himself, Kay starts off the discussion by suggesting how she would describe him and checking whether he would agree with her. Notice how what comes out of their discussion further highlights the importance of being able to have fun and be spontaneous, despite the routines that come with disability. This video also shows that there is a difference between how we think others see us, how we see ourselves and how we'd like to be seen.